Wednesday 31 October 2012

Are You Mom Enough?- SOC250 Independent Research Project


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Are You Mom Enough?
SOC250- Independent Research Project

Elise Rochelle Boonstra
Student Number: 3873237
Due Date: 01/11/2012
  
Since the development of ‘Web 2.0’ in 1999 we’ve seen a vast change beyond the past static web sites, which has enabled an explosion of online forums, social networks and chat rooms where social everyday interaction is accessible in its masses. This explosion of interaction online has allowed for new sociological research into everyday communication online as it delivers naturally occurring interactions with ease of access, in numerous media forms as well as interactions on a limitless number of categories. This research is used in order to observe behavioural patterns, conversational analysis, social hierarchies, deference and demeanour and rules of conduct which maintain social order as well as social attitudes within the interactions. In order to observe these sociological aspects of everyday interaction this paper will deconstruct and analyse a sample of naturally occurring data that was generated by a cover of Time Magazine published in early 2012.

This particular edition of Time Magazine published on the 21st of May 2012, featured twenty-six year old mother Jamie Lynne Grumet from Los Angeles, breast feeding her 3 year old son Aram (See Figure 1). With the heading “Are You Mom Enough?” this article sparked many negative and angry reactions to the cover image and story with many women stating that “Time was encouraging parenting wars and making mothering choices even harder” (The Age, 2012). The article which delves into the idea of attachment parenting received harsh criticism and became the centre of a worldwide debate not only between stakeholders in the affected industries but also by everyday citizens who held a strong opinion of attachment parenting and/ or breastfeeding. The everyday interaction on this topic follows the news article titled Confronting cover: Time shows mother breastfeeding 3-year-old’ posted on The Age website where members of the online community held discussions and arguments following the article on the “Are You Mom Enough?” cover in the discussion section of the website. The discussion section featured some 321 comments on a variety of topics that were generated from The Age article.



Figure 1: Controversial cover of Time Magazine published on the 21st May 2012. The cover features 26 year old mother Jamie Lee Grumet breastfeeding her 3 year old son Aram.

Generally speaking, breast feeding already generates large numbers of discussion forums, as it is quite a controversial topic as many individuals have and share very strong opinions on the topic. The specific selection of the time article rather than just a forum on breast feeding such as The Bub Hub or The Australian Breastfeeding Association forum allows for more empirical research into different forums and perspectives on the same topic, and therefore allows for a unified collaboration of information and opinions which can be supported by further information. This particular piece of data was selected as it was recent, showed a naturally occurring interaction whereby the data could be analysed, the data contained conflicting perspectives and varied opinions which will enable great relation to sociological research. Finally this particular topic was relevant to myself as I work in the Paediatric industry and breast feeding is a point of conversation and topic amongst patients whom again have varied opinions and thoughts on the topic making it relevant and interesting to my current employment.

The discussion generated on the bottom of the Confronting cover: Time shows mother breastfeeding 3-year-old’ article is an example of a computer mediated form of communication (CMC) (As discussed by Robinson, 2007) whereby the computer is the intermediary in the interaction between all of those involved. The interaction is an example of a content centric embedded interaction as the discussion is initiated and derived from the content from the above article. All of the posts relate to topics surrounding opinions on breastfeeding and attachment parenting- topics derived from the article (See Figure 2). The embedded nature of the posts is relative to that of the interaction belonging to a specific place and time, this is visible as the discussion posts are date and time stamped in relation to the specific time of the post (See Figure 2 for example).

Figure 2: Collaboration of posts demonstrating the embedded content centric nature of the interaction

On examination of the personas and identities within this interaction, 96.6% of the respondents fall into the category of anonymity. Anonymity can be described as when the respondent engaged in the discussion is without a name or they are identifiable by a name which does not relate to their individual personal identity offline, resulting in their true identity not publicly known. This can be identified throughout the data as many of the respondents use a ‘nickname’ or ‘online alias’. This is prominent throughout figure 3 where we can see a variety of identities as used in the data. Usernames such as Red Pony, bluestocking or Mummy are respondents whom have kept their identity 100% anonymous using an online name or identity as well as having kept their location unknown. Although on the contrary respondents SamDavisJr and nelson55leong have provided both their full names and locations. The veil of anonymity is often used online as many “people don't feel comfortable expressing opinions without the veil of anonymity. Take away that veil, and only the most outspoken people express their opinions” (Kabay, 2011). This statement supports the study by Zao, Grasmuck and Martin who found that: “People acted differently in such environments (anonymous) than they did in other online settings (nonymous)” (2008). The remaining 3.4% of the posters responded using their full name (first and last names) and 100% of those who provided their first and last name provided their location. A total of 213 of the 321 posters provided their location- whether this be just a state or capital city, this number totalled 66.6% of the people who engaged in the discussion being happy to provide their location, even if this meant that their names remained anonymous.


Figure 3: Assortment of online respondents demonstrating various forms of identity- Anonymity and Nonymity.

The presentation of self as coined by Goffman is defined as “we play different ‘roles’ in order to convey our self as possessing a particular set of characteristics” (1971) is also applicable to the personas and identities present in this data set. Many of the participants in the discussion have adapted a number of roles in order to ‘perform’ in the space of discussion, where they convey different characteristics of their persona in order to get their point across. In this particular discussion the ‘roles’ are developed in order to portray their knowledge and experience with the topic of discussion. A number of the roles developed by the respondents reflect on personal experiences or instead they roles are developed whereby the respondent reflects on their observed opinions. Some of the roles visible throughout the data set include: the role of the breastfeeding mother, the breast fed child, the observer and the medical professional to name a few. These roles are present in figure 4 as respondent bluestocking expresses the characteristics of their persona and portrays the role of the mother, which supports their reasoning for their opinion, whilst jack more simply develops the role of onlooker, giving the impression that the characteristics he is expressing is that of disgust of bluestockings opinion.


Figure 4: Interaction present in the data set, showing presentation of self and the different ‘roles’ portrayed in order to convey the respondents as possessing a particular set of characteristics

Deference and Demeanour can both work together to support an individual’s image of self or it can work in conflict to injure that image. The concept of deference and demeanour as developed by Goffman (1967) are present in this particular interaction. In relation to this data, deference can be identified as the way in which the participants interact and conduct themselves in relation to one another and the demeanour of the interaction includes the way in which this is done in the interaction, and this can be observed through the use of language, short hand writing, txt speak, CAPS LOCK and profanities etc. As there are discussions and differences of opinion throughout the data it is noticeable that the demeanour varies depending on the respondents opinion of the original poster’s (OP) comment and this can be visible in figure 5 where Anne and SheHasIssues clearly disagree with the previously mentioned comments. The change in demeanour is prevalent as Anne and SheHasIssues use direct and aggressive language such as “EXACTLY!” and “WHO gives its recommendations” in order to express their disagreement with the OP’s post. The use of CAPS LOCK also empathises their opinion and makes it appear them to be YELLING or talking forcefully to portray their opinion as, “writing in capitals, (makes) IT SOUND LIKE YOU’RE SHOUTING” (Which?, 2012). The benefit of online forums on deference and demeanour in terms of expression of opinion is that the individual may present their thoughts and actions in a way in which they wouldn’t otherwise in life beyond the computer screen, and often this can result in quite negative sanctions between participants as demonstrated.


Figure 5: Examples of deference and demeanour and how the demeanour of the respondent changes depending on their opinion of the OP's comment.


Dramaturgy can be identified as the way we present ourselves in social interactions being defined as an act. In the context of this data, dramaturgy doesn’t seem to be a big issue. This is due to the fact that in order to engage within the interaction the individual has physically had to search for the article in order to comment on it therefore needing to have a particular view or opinion on the topic of discussion. The anonymity that is also present within the data allows for the respondents engaged in the discussion to participate and ‘act’ as their true self rather than tweaking their opinion to fit in with the majority or what appears to be the social norm. The act of their true self is visible as their true opinion will not be associated with their offline life or nor judged by family and friends.

The theory of documentary interpretation whereby we interpret individuals and create interactions using prior experiences with similar things as well as assumed shared knowledge is present throughout this data set. Throughout the data men have participated in the interaction and provided their opinions on the topic. In some cases they have discussed their opinions on breastfeeding including; why it should/ shouldn’t be done at different ages and why it is beneficial to breastfeed etc. when they have never actually engaged in breast feeding personally. This is where the documentary interpretation theory comes into play, majority of the time the males rely on their partner’s experiences, externally researched information as well as assumed common knowledge in order to support their opinions.

Just like Goffman uses the idea of the “rules of conduct” to stipulate the allowable individual actions (1967) in everyday life outside of the internet, ‘netizens’ are also exposed to a set of rules of conduct to stipulate the ways in which they are expected to interact amongst users online. The rules of conduct online can be outlined by the forum host or they are determined by the shared understandings of the online forum and setting in which they are in. While this forum allows for freedom of opinion, it is common sense to protect the privacy of members and participants, comply with existing laws and encourage freedom of expression and the exchange of information in a mature and responsible manner. It would be unacceptable to turn the forums into an advertising billboard, slag off on discussion participants and upload responses that other participants may find offensive or abusive including obscene or sexually orientated language.

No matter whether we realise it or not, sociological concepts are utilised in everyday interactions whether they are in life offline or online. This analysis has demonstrated how these concepts relate to the interaction which occurred in the discussion section of an article on The Age website. These interactional exchanges between participants include disputes, differentiated personas and identity positions, documentary interpretation theory and online rules of conduct which intern effects the deference and demeanour and the presentation of self that can be deployed throughout the interaction. The debate on this topic delves far deeper than the discussion analysed in the paper. This magazine cover is and will remain one of the most controversial Time magazine covers of all time (Daily News, 2012).



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